Reignite the spark in your marriage and break free from infidelity. Join us as we work together to enhance your relationship skills and repair any damage that may have been done. It's time to stop pointing fingers and take responsibility for your actions. Let us show you how to take control and build a strong and healthy relationship with your spouse.
I’ve been helping couples recover from affairs, sex and pornography addiction, and severe conflict for over 20 years. Whether you have experienced an affair or are trying to avoid one I can help you work through your issues to achieve a Sizzling Hot Marriage!
How can you work on two relationships at one time? You Can’t! You must decide what really matters in your life. You must get out of the fantasy world thinking this other person is the answer to all of what you have been missing in your life. If your marriage sucks you’ve got to stop putting all the blame for that on your spouse. What is the likelihood that your poor relationship skills will show up in your next relationship? Come into reality – you need to fix yourself and stop looking to others for solving your personal problems. Stop blaming your spouse for your bad behaviors. Stop dragging another person into your folly. Stop hurting yourself.
Discover valuable tips for improving your relationship through personal reflection and prayer. This program is designed to help couples work through past issues and move toward a more fulfilling relationship. Learn how to love your spouse and yourself, deepen intimacy, and improve communication.
Affairs never happen in a vacuum. The relationship must be ripe for an affair. Affairs usually happen when couples have drifted apart over time. Affairs are usually the result of not listening to one another’s pleas for time, attention and sex. Couples get in this condition from unresolved issues. Some of those issues might be past abuse, pornography/sex addiction, low self-esteem, parental divorce, communication issues, etc. To move forward in your marriage, you’ve got to resolve these unresolved issues. It’s a long road to recovery after an affair. Make it a successful journey with Lifestyle.
During the program you will receive online lessons for you to learn about marriage, your spouse and yourself. You will gain valuable tips to enhance your relationship and your own mood. The time you spend reading and reflecting on each lesson will change your outlook on life and help you become a better you. You will learn how to love your spouse and yourself. On average you will need to spend about an hour each week reading each lesson alone. Then when you get together with your spouse during your weekly date and 5 hours together you will discuss the lesson together. This will deepen your intimacy and improve your relationship.
Probably the single most effective aspect of this program is prayer. Prayer changes things! The family that prays together stays together. Most of the couples in the program need a miracle to turn around their marriage. Bad feelings often have overtaken all the good feelings. Many are convinced that their spouse can’t change. What I have learned in my life is that God can change anybody. And He can change any situation. That is why we must reach out to Him for help. Prayer is our connection with God. As we speak to Him, He speaks to us. Making God the center of our wellness makes him the authority in our lives. This levels the playing field for couples as they now must live up to God’s expectations.
Join us for private coaching sessions, online courses, and group experiences to help you heal from past hurts and improve communication. Connect with other couples during our weekly classes and annual Sizzling Hot Marriage Summit. Start building a stronger, healthier relationship today!
Do your disagreements about little things tend to become big arguments? We help couples save their marriage by teaching them how to communicate and understand each other. This is your opportunity to change unproductive patterns and be transformed into loving and respectful partners. My approach includes one-on-one therapy/coaching, online courses and group experiences.
Nothing can compare to having your personal coach listen and keep you motivated to move toward your personal and marital goals. Over the next 12-months you will enjoy individual, couple and family sessions designed to help you heal from the past and learn how to communicate effectively and love each other. The Sizzling Hot Marriage Coaching Program includes coaching sessions throughout your yearlong subscription.
A big part of the change process comes from your interaction with other couples in the program. Other couples seeking to grow their marriage will be a positive influence that will drive you to be a better spouse. It is amazing to experience the synergy that happens when several couples who are hungry for a better marriage get together. During the Sizzle Mindset Retreat you will get to know the other couples in your cohort as you kick off this program. You will have an opportunity to interact with the other couples on a weekly basis during our weekly class on Sunday evenings at 6 pm CST. You will have the opportunity to get together with all the couples during the annual Sizzling Hot Marriage Summit.
Rebuilding trust after an affair or intense bickering is tough but not impossible. Invest in your marriage by learning to forgive, communicate effectively, and love yourself. Over the next 12 months, the Sizzling Hot Marriage Coaching Program offers four intervention methods to produce a change in your marriage. This approach includes one-on-one therapy, online courses, group experiences, and a path to building a strong foundation for lasting happiness.
You have made the decision that you have invested too much into your marriage to just throw it all away. Smart choice! The pain of an affair will dissipate as you rebuild a brand new mutually satisfying relationship. You both must learn how to forgive and acknowledge your contribution to your marital woes. You must learn how to communicate effectively. You must mature emotionally and socially. You must learn to forgive and love yourself. You must be able to love your spouse when they are attacking you. The guilty spouse must be open to living under a magnifying glass to rebuild their credibility with your spouse.
The path to getting back on the same team after an affair or intense bickering may be long and hard but it is not impossible. When couples are not able to get their needs met within their relationship, they naturally look to other sources to find happiness. But most people don’t really know how to be happy. I will teach you! Take the next 12 months to focus on building a strong foundation for lasting happiness in your marriage. My Sizzling Hot Marriage Coaching Program employs four intervention methods to produce change in your marriage. Couples who have completed this program report a satisfying marriage they never thought was possible.